Does loving someone deeply by definition mean we’re attached to them?
Sunada doesn’t see these ideas as contradictory, and explores what an enlightened relationship might look like. If he were to die tomorrow, of course I would be devastated.
I needed clarity as boundaries between an ex and me were unclear and rendering me senseless.
Several painful and agonizing months had passed since our original split, and my confidence had finally re-established itself.
I found myself approaching Zen and dating in a very non-Zen way. ” In the practice of Zen meditation, the brain moves toward a state of being very quiet.
I wanted to look at how Zen had made me approach dating differently…hopefully better.These would be magnified many times when faced with calamities.Knowing the frailties of human nature, the Buddha did, in one of His precepts, advise His followers of refrain from committing adultery or sexual misconduct.Talking about Zen and dating is like talking about Zen and the sky.Is it possible to be in a committed sexual relationship and follow the Buddha’s teaching on non-attachment?I wanted to explore how non-attachment and equanimity could be balanced with passion and romance.