On July 31, The League held an exclusive party at the Surf Lodge hotel in Montauk, New York, promising great cocktails and an even better sunset.(For the uninitiated, Montauk is a newly hip vacation destination town at the eastern tip of Long Island, and the Surf Lodge is at the center of its young, trendy scene.) We were invited to attend and cover the event as press and arrived via party bus, though the vast majority of people on the bus were not press, just eligible members of The League.Thank you for playing your part in bringing us together.I will not be renewing my membership because the second person I met up with through BM has proved to be my perfect match. Thank you for working way above the level of my expectations!You picked an age range, sure, and height requirements, fine, but your options .Thanks to the all-inclusive power of the Internet, you were scrolling through goths and triathletes and electricians and investment bankers and chefs, and suddenly it didn’t seem so crazy to start trading emails with someone who rooted for the wrong sports team or even lived across the country.By Jesse Noyes It can be hard being a single Ivy League graduate looking for love with a suitable companion.
The membership is discounted for full-time students, recent graduates, and residents of certain states. The first is a short 35-to-50 word profile, which is visible to all members of the opposite sex.Hi there, The reason for cancelling my membership is that I am now in a very promising relationship with a man I met on Blues Match!We started writing in October, met in November and we have been seeing each other ever since! I just thought that you might like to know that I got engaged on Friday to the first and only person I ever met through Blues Match.These people didn’t go to your college, and they didn’t know your friends (or your mom).But 20 years later, that diverse pool of potential daters hasn’t grown broader and deeper—it’s been subdivided into stupidly specific zones.The second is an extended one-page biography that gives a more detailed description of the member's personality and preferences.